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Dawn of the Ice Age

It has been more than three years since we last had adequate refrigeration. It has been tough going. We felt it was time to bring back the fridge to A Future and a Hope. We figured it was a good time to raise money to bring food to the hungry as well. We routinely feed hungry people, but this fund raiser will enable to spread the love on a bigger scale. 

Check out the campaign by following this link:

https://www.generosity.com/community-fundraising/dawn-of-the-ice-age--2

If you would like to give via PayPal use afutureandahope@gmail.com and include a note that it is for this campaign. 


Culture

Motorcycle ride in soysambu 055I can remember the early years when every sound, smell, season in Kenya seemed so foreign to me. Kenya was different than what I was used to. We would post blog articles about how it made us feel, and the struggle was real. It took years to get to a place where we felt less like foreigners and more like we belonged. We helped the process by making our own traditions and morphed culture. Christmas is hot and a time for swimming for example. 'Summer' is cool, rainy and grey.

Twelve years is a long time to live somewhere. We had committed to living in Kenya for 2 years, but it took us that long to find our place and our way in which we could help. In fact, we are still finding our way. We must adjust to the needs that present themselves and to our knowledge and understanding of the culture we are trying to aid. We are not here to produce 'little Americans,' but instead are trying to help people where there are gaps.

Taking in orphans and being family to them is our story for the last ten years. We are still in the midst of it, and always will be even when they grow up and out over the next five years or so. We still have to get them from high school to tech schools or college, and then off to finding jobs. 

1912072-Chickens-on-Bus-1But that is not what this article is about. I was just realising that I don't think about the 'odd' things of Kenyan life anymore. I don't notice the plethora of cattle crossing the highway or the way the buildings are designed differently than in Texas. I think of Kenya as home. Thousands of chickens strapped to the top of a bus? That is normal now. Fish hanging off of the front of a vehicle? Also normal. No longer do I tote my camera snapping photos of things to try and make sense of my oddness in a country that is not my own. Now, I am one of them. I am integrated. 

My skin though will always be an issue. My heart, my soul, it is here. I know the streets, the people, the language. But I will always look foreign. It was a hard lesson in our third year of living in Kenya when Johnny told me that no matter how hard I try, I will not integrate completely. I nearly cried. I will always look like the 'rich westerner.' Sadly, he is right. My biological kids who are Kenyan by birth and know nothing else are always greeted with, "Welcome to Kenya!" by well-wishing citizens. But it is our norm, and we have gotten somewhat used to it.

However, with that said, making friends is not that easy. There is an aid culture here. Many people from the west come to Kenya for a few weeks/years and bring aid. It is great, except that local people know how to work the system so making friends as someone who 'helps' people is not always straight forward. 

It wasn't until we moved to The Shire that we actually started to find friends, oddly enough! We had no idea our little farm in the middle of nowhere would bring us to a place where there are people who are like us. We don't get out much, but it is nice to have a few folks with whom we can connect.

Zebra painting 097Which brings me to what I was going to share... for the first time ever, one of my children is attending a summer camp! Today Emma is going off for the first time away from home for longer than an overnight. She is going to pony camp. No cell phone, no contact with me for five or six days. For those of you who support us, thank you for your understanding in this matter. I feel this is a colossal thing for Emma. Having a pony has opened doors for her to make friends. She is excited. I am happy for her, but I have separation anxiety, ha! Emma was born in Kenya and finding other people she can be friends with is a must for my social 10 year old. I am so happy for her. A sweet lady is actually loaning her a pony so that we could afford to send Emma. Transporting hers to the venue is expensive at $3 a mile. (We could import a used horse trailer for that price, and we jolly well might in the future!) So send your thoughts this way as Emma Caite is off far away at camp on horseback! 

 

*all photos belong to Makena Brooks except the chickens on the matatu one. I borrowed it. Thank you whoever took that one!


Care Packages

It has been a long time since we had an article about care packages, and it has been ages since we received one! Granted, they do charge us at the post office a percentage of the amount written on the customs form, but some things we just cannot find in Kenya, and we would love to have them. Here is our wish list! For my friends with horse connections, finding some items are quite difficult. We are extremely happy with used items as long as they are in good condition. I will post the horse items here first because they are difficult to find in Kenya, but if that is not an area of interest for  you, please keep scrolling. We really miss certain things like ranch seasoning packets!

Horse stuff: (I am posting links to products so you can see what we are needing, but if you have used items in good condition, we are happy to use those!)

  • lead ropes (seriously, we have broken most of ours!)
  • 4 hackamores (bitless attachment so our horses can be ridden without bits) see this link or this link
  • 1/4" or 6mm thick parachord 100 ft long for making our own halters preferably turquoise or black, but not really picky!
  • 20 pieces if possible 1" Stainless Steel O rings to make our own bridles
  • 3 crops
  • 3 or so (because they break over time, but one will do!) lunge whips
  • bean bags (very important for our therapy sessions!)
  • plush dice
  • game idea books for horsey games (just search for some on Amazon) We aren't picky, and I don't have any!
  • cones
  • reins
  • breast plates (3 ponies, one horse)
  • Stirrup leathers 
  • stirrups
  • helmets
  • Rope halters
  • saddles obviously not easy to mail so designated funds to buy them here- $400 or so? I found one I really like! 
  • extra money for hay (it is tripled in price at the moment, so we need about $400 for 100 bales)
  • hay nets
  • speakers and ipod for music for therapy. Our speakers are not loud enough.

Meds:

  • Nyquil
  • ibuprofen
  • acetaminophen
  • Children's meds ages 1 year and up
  • vitamin C chewables
  • pepto
  • sore throat meds
  • allergy meds
  • bug bite meds
  • antibacterial cream

Household:

  • Mr. Clean erasers
  • hand towels
  • wash cloths
  • silicone Popsicle molds
  • LED solar twinkle lights (all sorts, these are fun!)
  • flashlights
  • hair bows for baby Starlette
  • hair brushes (remember, we live in a country where we are the minority so finding good hair brushes is difficult)

Food:

  • Ranch
  • TexJoy
  • butt rub
  • seasoned sunflower seeds
  • pistacios
  • pecans
  • almonds
  • marshmallows (both large and small)
  • hersheys
  • chocolate chips
  • peanut butter chips
  • m&m's
  • Reese's cups

school supplies

  • Pens
  • crayons
  • coloring books
  • erasers
  • pencils
  • paint brushes
  • watercolor paper
  • glue
  • notebooks

Pet Supplies

  • Dog sweaters for up on this cold mountain Size Great Dane
  • Dog leashes
  • Chew toys
  • Flea control
  • Dog bed

 


Blustery day!

Blustery dayIt is an extremely blustery day! On The Shire we have a 'windy' season. Lately the gales are so strong, they blow off the neighbor's roof on occasion.

We are frantically hoping for rain. I remember a time in my life when talking about the weather was 'small talk,' but now that my entire life revolves around the weather, it has become THE talk. Greeting friends in Kenya, we almost always ask, "Have you gotten any rain?"

The rains were misleading, starting on time, then suddenly stopping. Everyone planted, including us, with the assumption that the rains would do their normal thing this season.

Sadly, we are using every drop we harvested from those initial rains to water our garden. We have maybe one week left of water, if that.

This is not just small talk, this is us realising how important WATER is. This is us being mindful of how much we use to wash our hands, shower our bodies, pour on our plants, and use for drinking and giving to the animals. This is us collecting grey water in our banana circle to grow things.

This
is
us.

Water is life.


Food Stock Up

Ok, enough 'horse' talk. It is not ALL we do at A Future and a Hope. We still are parents to our beautiful kids we birthed through our hearts and our hips.

School fees are paid for this middle term, and that is fantastic! What a huge relief.

We also are trying to get extra funds to stock up on food for our house, the girls' house, and several other homes as well because we have an upcoming election in August.

Our experience in 2007/8 was ca-razy. We had 35 refugees in our home and town was on a lock-down with it being somewhat of a 'war zone.' Getting food was a risk of one's life, so we hope to be a bit more prepared this go 'round just in case things go south.

We are hoping everything is peaceful through the election process. Past experience has made us a bit concerned, and there is tension, but we want to encourage peace among the various tribes of people. Love one another, k? Seriously. We are all just humans trying our best to do what we think is best so let's get along, alright?

Lack of rain this rainy season hasn't helped people's moods, and sky-rocketing food prices aren't helping either. It is worrisome.

Personally, we'd like to stock up on food for our animals and people, and some families in need, but we don't have a freezer for ourselves, so... that might be part of the need as well?? I don't know. I always feel guilty when we 'purchase' big items. We really try to be efficient financially by living with our minimum needs, but I do think that a freezer solar system would save money in the long run by giving us the ability to store things that go bad quickly, and therefore preventing so many long trips to town during the week.

Anyway, this is just a bit of info of what is going through our heads at the moment.

We are extremely grateful to those of you who love our little family and continually encourage us. You are a huge part of us buried deep in our souls. Love to you all my sweet friends.


You and me, we are the same?

Something happened at our most recent horse therapy session that I had not thought through before. It makes complete sense, but it just didn't cross my mind until I witnessed it first hand.

Horse therapy 013This is Duncan. He has spina bifida and cannot feel his legs.  In this photo, he is extremely nervous about this new experience of coming to our farm, possibly riding a giant monster, and meeting all of these new people. It was his first therapy session...

It started to drizzle just as everyone arrived so we all gathered on our veranda and sat down. I began entertaining the kids by asking them to get to know one another.

See, usually, they all come, get on a horse, and off they go. It hadn't occurred to me that they didn't know one another until this moment when we were all huddled together seeking shelter.

When I introduced Duncan to Malia who also has spina bifida, I pointed out, "Duncan is just like you, Malia!"

 

Her reaction was priceless! 

Horse therapy 045

Malia just looked Duncan over soaking in the fact that she is not the only person who has spina bifida!

 

It never occurred to me that perhaps these kids have never met someone like themselves before! They are unique, after all!

This is a perk of our horse therapy program that hadn't crossed my mind until this point. 

Horse therapy 246Malia took it upon herself to show Duncan that, although she was afraid her first time getting up on a large equine, now she is a pro and can do it with a smile. She competed wholeheartedly in the games and really worked hard. (Right)

Horse therapy 156It took Duncan quite some time to get used to the horses. In the middle of our session, he was already experiencing fatigue in his core. You can see in this photo how he was lying on the horse because he was too tired to support himself. Therapy sessions are quite a workout, and in time, Duncan will get stronger and stronger. 

We are already seeing results in the other riders' core strength!

One thing is for sure, by the end of the therapy session, Duncan was enjoying himself! (Below)

 

Horse therapy 346

 

 


20 Reasons Why I believe every child should own a horse

Recently, I wrote an article about how several university professors who visited us said they were interested in doing a short film on our home schooling methods after seeing how the kids use horses in school. I mentioned that I would write more on why I think every child should own or at least work with horses.

013When I was a teenager, I was not a 'horsey' girl lusting after everything equine, but when my mom decided to get an Arabian gelding, I immediately fell in love with him and wanted to spend every moment with him. He was boarded at Plum Nearly Ranch in South East Texas several miles from my home. I would ride my bike or beg my parents to drop me off there where I would volunteer my time learning to wash horses, scoop poop, and feed them. I even assisted in an artificial insemination process! Needless to say, I learned a lot more than just 'riding;' however, I did learned to ride and even competed in a few horse shows. I found that my time with my horse was some of the best moments of my life. The sweet smell of hay, horse poop, and oats is a part of my soul now that brings back fond memories of crisp cool mornings, and the feelings of learning responsibility. During this time, after 18 years of marriage, my parents were getting a divorce. On top of this, I was going through puberty and was not very 'pretty.' We built a new house and moved every 3 years, and I found that it was difficult for me to fit in at school.... but my pony, he didn't care about all that. His warm breath was a comfort to my soul breathing life and hope in me that I could leave all that mess and stress behind and fly away with him carrying me. 

After going off to college, my dad decided to sell my horse without telling me. He bought me a new, white, 1993, Toyota Celica hatchback. I didn't know how to feel. I was grateful for my new car, yet, so sad to let go of a friend. Fast-forward to my grownup years, my daughter Butterfly was given a horse book by Rod Hatch when she was small. She would talk about horses and look through its pages every day... so when we got our small farm, my first thought was to find a horse. I wanted my kids to experience horses, and here are twenty reasons why I think you should make the investment, too:

  1. Discipline-- It comes as no surprise that owning a horse teaches discipline. There are many safety rules when dealing with horses such as wearing boots to protect feet, helmets when riding, and back protectors when eventing. In fact, 75% of owning a horse is done with feet on the ground and not riding. It takes patience and discipline to own a horse.
  2. Responsibility-- by 8 am, my kids have to feed horses. They brush them, clean their hooves, and make sure they are healthy by checking for any scratches or issues. My kids learn responsibility through owning a horse. The horses are fed 4 times a day (in our case, but usually two at most places). The kids must bring them in, feed them, etc... four times, every single day. And they do it!
  3. Humility-- horses keep you humble. Not only do you have to deal with their poop, slobbery kisses, and messes, they are huge animals. Bad attitudes do not go far around horses.  If someone does not respect the animal, they can get hurt. Humility is learned rather quickly.
  4. Challenges--Children learn to embrace and persevere through challenges that arise with owning or renting a horse. In some cases, challenges are having a lame horse that forces you to wait MONTHS before riding. Other challenges may be the physical ones you experience while learning how to ride properly, and the challenges you face as you ride over or through new places! Every time we get on the back of a horse, it is a new challenge since horses are cognitive beings with their own personalities.  Eowyn looking
  5. Bravery-- Our minds have to learn to trust in the horse and in ourselves. It takes a certain amount of bravery to ride a horse and to get back on if one falls off. 
  6. Intellectually stimulating-- Learning to put tack together (trust me, it can be a puzzle), how to care for hooves, measuring feed, calculating percentage of rider's weight to horse's weight, learning anatomy, and how to fit a saddle properly, calculating distance in a circular round pen, or measuring stride between jumps... there is so much room for intellectual growth when working with horses.
  7. Physical education--in our case, this element of our education system comes mostly from outside play, and horse riding. Riding is exercise. Learning to canter and rise in trot requires physical strength. Even a 'walk' strengthens one's core which is why we use the horses for physical therapy for our disabled friends. For the older kids, leading their younger sister on a pony requires a great deal of walking/jogging. Lunging horses also takes energy. Lifting hay bales, feed sacks. large jugs of water, jump poles, and going in and out four times a day to feed the horses is physical work in of itself. It keeps my kids outside for large portions of the day.
  8. Friends/acceptance--Horses are friendly. They love you no matter what. They can listen to hours of talking and still look back at you with those big, beautiful eyes.
  9. Competition-- Home schooling, there is not much competition when you are the only student in your class level. I find this the biggest flaw with my educational choice for my kids, but here in Kenya, there is a community of horse folks who put on shows and actually compete! We haven't entered any shows yet, but this is an element we are hoping to delve into. I think a competitive spirit is good for kids, and teaches them to have drive to succeed. 
  10. Socialization-- Living in Kenya, my pale kids stick out. It is difficult to connect with village kids who constantly stand in awe of our 'paleness' unable to go beyond that feature even after years and  years of living here. Home schooling also means my kids don't have many people they can relate to or with whom to interact. There is a surprisingly large community of people who ride horses in our neck of the woods. Riding horses gives my kids an element of 'connectability' to kids who also do so. Not every one has our circumstances, but this element of having a horse is still true for kids all over the world. It gives kids a place to 'belong.'
  11. Emotional management-- There is no room for emotional outbursts around horses. Horses are mirrors of our souls. They will reflect what we are feeling inside. If you head out to deal with horses while angry, the horse will respond accordingly! 
  12. Adventure-- Horses can take you exploring through forests, trails, hillsides, etc... hacking out with your horse buddy is an amazing adventure that connects one with nature and stimulates the imagination! You can be a princess on a unicorn, a knight in shining armor, or an explorer like Lewis and Clark, or imagine you are Sacagawea.
  13. Patience-- This is a HUGE part of owning/caring for a horse. For example, today, Emma had to wait 20 minutes of me lunging her pony before she could ride today. She sat and watched--waiting patiently. Butterfly has had to wait MONTHS for her horse to get sound after an injury. In the meantime, she has groomed her and doctored her wound, learning how to treat her horse during this time, but has been a huge test of her patience while the rest of us who are lighter can ride the ponies.
  14. Something to do/keeps kids out of trouble-- Having a horse costs time, energy, and money, and this is not a bad thing! Where your money is, your heart is, too. Having to work for something is a great motivator and keeps kids out of trouble. Instead of going out to parties as a teen, I was heading off to the stables volunteering. Instead of getting into mischief, I was having sleepovers in the barn with some of my friends and practicing our riding the following day. On a personal level, now, living in Kenya where there are few other activities available, horses give my kids something to do beyond just reading books indoors.
  15. Bonding-- having time with your child on a horse hack provides loads of bonding time between you and your child. It opens room for conversation. And if your child is riding alone, she will bond with her horse.
  16. Transportation-- Horses carry us. We live on a hill. I am lazy. I ride up and down it. 
  17. Coordination/balance-- "Kick with your inside leg." "Keep your hands down." "Don't pull in her mouth." "Rise on the correct diagonal."  "Stay balanced!" There is a certain amount of acquired skill that comes with riding.
  18. Language-- I have read of many accounts of how riding a horse causes children to learn to speak. It has to do with the rhythm and balancing on the horse's back that taps into the language part of the brain. One of our Kenyan daughters didn't speak to me for years until we got a horse. 
  19. Empathy-- while interacting with a horse, a person is encouraged to imagine how the horse feels and put himself in the horses shoes. 
  20. Birth control (for us grownups, haha)-- I have six biological children. I find that I get 'broody' when my youngest child reaches a certain age; however, now that I am 'into horses,' I find that having a toddler is hindering my ability to ride and train the horses, and therefore, preventing me from even CONSIDERING another little human running around. Horses fill that 'need to be needed' void as well. It is very difficult when you follow attachment parenting methods like I do, to have a small person who is still breast-feeding and being carried when you want to go out on a long adventure with a horse, or when you need to train them for (in our case) equine therapy sessions.

So there you have it! I can think of even more reasons, but I think 20 are enough! This doesn't even scratch the surface of therapeutic benefits! So parents, when your child mentions s/he wants a pony, why not consider volunteering at a ranch nearby and see how you get on?

 


June Newsletter

I just sent out our June newsletter. Here is the text just in case you do not receive it. Use the link on the side of this blog to sign up.

A Decade of Orphan-Care

Not everything works out. Sometimes failure is unavoidable, other times we can avoid utter failure. Rarely is it possible to have everything work out exactly how we want it to. We have been caring for our orphans no more for a decade now. Ten years of feeding, clothing, housing, schooling, and above all loving unconditionally. There are times when it feels like twenty years instead of ten, and other days it is like we started last week. We cannot report success in everything, but we can report success in the most important thing. Family. We have successfully created a family with our girls.

This family is not like a typical nuclear family, nope it is different. The foundation for family, love, is there. We are connected and will remain so throughout the years. Yet we come from different places and sometimes see the world differently. Our girls are growing up. Only one of them, Edith, is still a minor. All the others are legal adults and capable of making decisions without us. Which they do frequently. Each one of them are still in school and rely on us one hundred percent for their livelihoods. Legal adulthood is here and practical adulthood is just around the corner. 

Four of them will be graduating high-school this year. That means four decisions on four different futures will be made soon. Vocational school, jobs, relocation, and relationships are all part of those decisions that have to be made. They will not all lead to success. There will be setbacks, failures, and mishaps along the way. However, just like the past decade each of those misfortunes will be handled with a family for support. We and this includes you, will be there for them, and hopefully, they will be there for us when we need them.

We have succeeded in love. We have a family. We have also triumphed in keeping the girls in school. They are healthy and able to make wise decisions about their health. They have experienced love and have confidence in us. They know, even if some of them do not acknowledge it, that we are here for them.

When I put it down on paper, not all our endeavors have found success, but the most important, providing family, has and is succeeding


Standardized Tests in schools and horses?

Eowyn studying on moon bwTwo years ago, college professors from Louisiana State came to Kenya to film us having no idea WHO we were nor what we were doing in Kenya. They wanted to find interesting folks of whom to document a 5 minute short film to be shared in France at a movie festival. Our relationship has grown since that first visit as they come each year to record edits and additions for our now 20 minute short film in-the-making! We had no idea we would be interesting enough for such efforts, and it is heart touching to be encouraged in this way.

This last week, they returned to finish up the film, and while here, they suggested they might do a second series focusing on our horse therapy program and how we use horses in homeschooling. I had no idea they were interested in the impact the horses are having. In fact, the horses and home schooling are not even featured in their first film titled "Pioneer Pizza". I was surprised our schooling methods were even an item of interest, and the horses being a GOOD model of home educating? That made my heart swoon! Feeling curious and extremely flattered that I was doing something right, I inquired of my film making friends why the interest?

Being professors at Louisiana State, they struggle with standardized testing pressure and the structure of the educational system's negative impact on students. The producer and director of our short film expressed his passion for hands on type learning and how meaningful our type of home schooling is on young people. Our time was short by the time I realized this gem that connected this college professor to myself, the measly, little, home schooling mom who wonders if she is doing things right, so we didn't get to delve in any deeper into the topic.

However, I went away from the conversation happy that someone sees the benefits of having my children start their school day with the responsibilities of caring for horses on our farm. That particular morning, my day started off with a confrontation with one daughter, who will remain unnamed, who insisted that she couldn't brush or work her pony because she had 'school' to do. So I retorted with the fact that indeed she WAS doing school, and that I as her teacher have made a farm work subject of which she can't just 'opt out.' She got the point, and she actually enjoyed her morning, but it was extremely convenient to have university professors bring up the topic in our home on the very day my daughter just didn't feel like DOing the hands-on section of school because she didn't think it was as important as Algebra.

If you are wondering my reason as to why I feel that horses are a vital part of my children's education and why I think every child who shows interest should own a horse, here are a few reasons that I will put in an article soon:

  1. discipline                                     Eoywn pony bum
  2. responsibility
  3. humility
  4. challenges
  5. bravery
  6. physical education
  7. friends
  8. socialization,
  9. emotional management
  10. adventure
  11. patience
  12. something to do
  13. transportation
  14. coordination
  15. birth control (seriously, haha) More on that in my next article

There are other blogs that talk about this topic, too! Just google 'why every person should own a horse!'

 


Bull

Yesterday, Sunday, we slaughtered and butchered our young bull. The process was done as humanely as possible and with the aim to come out the other side with as much meat as possible. Mission accomplished. We had succulent, juicy, and delicious meat from ten o'clock in the morning till seven that evening. It was a good day.
 
Not only did we enjoy the nourishment, but many of our neighbors did as well. Typically a kilogram of beef sells for around 400 KES in Nakuru. That is about $3.87 U.S. dollars, which is a price that puts beef out of the reach of many people. We started selling our beef at 250 KES a kilogram and ended the day in another village selling the remainder at 200 KES. The bull did not bring in much income, a total of $90, but we were able to spread around the meat to many families in our village. 
 
This is the third bull that our cow as given birth to (hope with us for a cow this next time around.) Bulls are pretty much useless to us here on The Shire and can be rambunctious and too eager to break through fences. The first two bulls we sold to brokers who then resold in the market. This time around we decided to try slaughtering and selling the meat in the village. We made less but were able to spread the wealth more. Not only were our neighbors, who rarely eat beef, able to buy at almost half the normal cost, but we also were able to pay the butcher/slaughterer, also one of our neighbors.
 
Most of the profit went to pay labor around the farm, and the rest will be used to buy feed for the pigs and dogs. We are not creating a commercial farm, but when money can be made we will use the profit to help spread as much hope as we can.